Get Dressed with Confidence Before You Get Out of Bed

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If you want to be confident and successful, you must get dressed with confidence before you get out of bed in the morning.

Real confidence has nothing to do with who you are and what you have. Real confidence comes when you decide you will be confident before your feet hit the floor each morning. Confidence is an attitude, a state of being. One of the best things about confidence is that you can create confidence all on your own. There is no special recipe or secret ingredient for creating confidence. It literally can be a simple matter of deciding to be confident. When you wake up each day, simply tell yourself that you are confident.

I mean that literally.  When you wake up each day, state your name and state that you are a confident person. For example:

I  am Janeane Davis and I am confident.

As you go through your day,  each time you start to feel your confidence staring to take a hit, repeat the line. Each time you are about to encounter a situation when you need to feel confident and self-assured repeat the sentence. As you are preparing to do things that would normally make you feel nervous and uneasy repeat the sentence.

It all starts with you getting a confident attitude before you get out of bed in the morning. It all starts with deciding each morning that you are going to be confident. Your words have power. You can speak things into existence by stating them and then working towards making them true.  When you start declaring your confidence each morning before you leave bed, you are setting yourself up for confidence and success.

Try talking yourself into confidence tomorrow morning before you get out of bed , then come back and leave a comment letting me know how it worked out for you.

Want to Create Confidence? Help Others

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One of the best ways to create confidence is to help others! It seems strange at first to think that helping someone else would help you increase your confidence, but it does.  W\you help others you show them and yourself that you have something of value to offer the world. The ability to help others is a sign of worth, and an important place in the world. When you have an important place in the world, it makes you feel more confident.
If you want to be more confident, step out from behind your protective shell and help someone.
When you reach out and help other people your confidence is boosted. You can only help others if you have the ability, knowledge and competence to do a thing. When you help another person, you are sharing your knowledge, skills and expertise. It does not matter what you are helping the person with if you are providing help to someone you have some skill, talent or expertise that is of value. The more people you are able to help, the more you are using your knowledge, skills and expertise. Each time a person asks you for help accepts your help and thanks you for your help it is a vote of confidence in you. Sometimes if enough other people have confidence in you, it rubs off and gives you self-confidence.
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Take a moment now and look for places where you can be of assistance to others. Look inside your home with family members. Check with your neighbors to see what type of help they need that you can provide. The help you give doesn’t have to be major in nature. The size of the assistance you provide is not important, the important thing is that you offer assistance to those in need. When you help others it gives you confidence a boost even if you don’t realize it because you are someone that people can rely upon. When you become a person others can rely upon, you start to see yourself as reliable. When you see yourself as reliable, it will be a boost to your confidence level.
There are all kinds of ways to create the confidence you need to get things done and helping others is one of them.

Put On Your Big Girl Panties and Create Confidence

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Being confident in life is a three-part procedure that starts before you get out of bed in the morning. First, you put on your big girl panties and decide you are a confident person. Second, you put on your fake it until you make it (with work) dress by behaving as if you are confident. Third, put on your accessories, which are the clichés that will get you pumped up and keep you going when things get hard or go wrong. Think of these three steps like a recipe. When you put all the ingredients together you will have exactly the confidence you need.
Putting on your big girl panties means that you face the world ready to do all that needs to be done. When you wear your big girl panties you are saying that you are showing up like a grown up in order to do the hard tasks. When you wear your big girl panties, you say to the world that scared or not, nervous or not you are stepping up to the plate and you are ready to hit a home run. When you put on your big girl panties you are claiming the confidence you want to have even if you do not actually have it yet. Creating confidence begins and ends in your mind so, you can get the confidence you need to do whatever you want, whenever you want.

Read More: Want to Be Confident? Grab Your Big Girl Panties! 

 

You hold the keys to confidence in your hand and no one can take them away. Keep in mind, that if you lose your confidence, just like you can pick up keys you have dropped, you can pick up your confidence. We will discuss that more in detail later.When you wake up each morning tell yourself that you are confident. Claim it as a fact:

“I am Janeane Davis and I am confident.”

During the day, if you lose your confidence, simply tell yourself once again that you are confident. Say it to yourself over and over again until you believe it and live it. Say the words out loud. No matter where you are when the confidence disappears say the words aloud to yourself. If you are in a crowd of people, it doesn’t matter. Turn to the side and say the words. Words have power. Words make things happen. So, say the words aloud as often as needed until you feel the confidence.

 

 

stop dreaming and start doing

 

 

The talk yourself into it method works. Years ago, Jesse Jackson said, “If my mind can conceive it and my heart can believe it, I can achieve it.” This quote explains how claiming confidence works. If you can think you have confidence and you can believe you can have, you can actually be confident. That is why even if you are not confident now and even if you do not believe you can be confident you must claim you are confident each morning. When you claim you are confident, you have conceived it. Your mind has entertained the possibility that you can have all the confidence you want.

 

 

 

Even if you do not believe you are confident or that you will ever be, you can change things. By telling yourself each morning that you are confident you can change things. Y will eventually believe that you are confident, that you can have all the confidence you want. Be encouraged and stand strong in the faith that if you keep telling yourself that you are confident, you will believe it and eventually you will live it. The confidence you want is easily within your grasp. Just claim it.

 

Read More: Creating Confidence – You Can Do It 

 

The next time you have something hard or scary to do, don’t pause to think of reasons why you cannot do it. Just picture yourself pulling up your panties, stepping up and doing the job. If you are meeting with supervisors at your job to discuss advancement opportunities, do not spend time being afraid or nervous about the meeting. Instead, get ready for the meeting in advance by making some notes in your tablet or on some 3 x 5 cards to make sure that you remember important points you want to discuss during the meeting.

Take Action Now and Create the Confidence You Want

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You can either take action now to create the confidence you want or you can sit back scared. There is no reward to be found in living scared, so step up, show up like a grown up and make your world what you want it to be. Today is a great day to claim what is yours.

Take Action Now to Create the Confidence You Want

If you want to be confident and successful, you must do the work to create that confidence so take action now to do it. Wishing you were confident and hoping for confidence will never make the confidence appear. You must do the work to make it happen.  Here is my favorite story to illustrate the point.

In Philadelphia there were five birds sitting on a telephone wire talking about plans for the winter.

Three of the birds decides to go to Florida for the winter holidays.

 Question: How many birds were left on the telephone wire.

Answer: Five because deciding to do something is not the same as actually doing something.

Take a moment now to think about a situation where you need confidence. Make a picture in your mind of yourself in that situation standing tall, confident, successful and happy in that situation. Is it easy for you to see yourself acting confident in that situation or is it difficult? Does confidence come naturally to you or do you have to work hard at it? Do you always find a way to get the confidence you need to do what you want or do you find yourself often lacking the confidence you need in situations?

If you find it hard or impossible to summon up the confidence you need in situations, be encouraged, you can still make it happen. It is all about knowing your place in the universe. If you know that it is hard for you to be confident when you need to be, the solution is simple, plan in advance. Start by pulling out your calendar and looking at the things you have scheduled for the next week. If one of the things on your schedule is something that normally requires a lot of confidence and that fact scares you to death, start with that event.

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Write down the event – use pen and paper or pull out your favorite electronic device. Next, write down all the things about this scheduled event that zaps your confidence. Then write down a way to defeat all of those confidence zapping things on your list. Words have power. This means that by writing down the event and writing down solutions for all the confidence zappers you are starting to take power over the things that zap your confidence. It also means the confidence you desire is close at hand.So you see, all you need to start having the confidence you want is your calendar and something to write with!

So, take action today and start being the confident, successful and happy person you want to be.

5 Day Confidence Building Challenge

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Have you ever been in a situation where you had a deliver a presentation and you were so nervous because you wanted to create a first great impression? Maybe you wanted an A in the grad course you were enrolled in. Or perhaps you wanted to impress your boss with your presentation so that you could get a promotion. But you got nervous and it showed throughout your presentation, and you botched it.

Or maybe you have a dream which you are not pursuing because you are too scared, or you do not believe that you can succeed. You might be afraid of people laughing at your dream, or failing, or just being afraid because you don’t know how to get started.

If you can relate to any of this, what you are suffering from is a lack of confidence.

You are not alone. 85% of the world’s population are affected by low self-esteem and lack of confidence.

So how can you master confidence and not hold back on your dreams?

Did you know that confidence starts and ends in your mind?

Did you know there are things you can do before you get out of bed each morning that will increase your confidence level and help you to succeed? Well, that is where confidence starts.

You can get all you need before your feet hit the floor in the morning.

Take a moment right now to think about the most confident person you know. Pick a person who just exudes all the confidence you wish you had. Now that you have that person in your mind, think about the things that person does that make you think of confidence. Is it how the person stands? Is it how the person dresses? Is it how the person talks?

What does that person have that you wish you had? Now picture yourself as that person. Imagine how things would change in your personal and professional life if you had more confidence? Do you want to be that confident person? Imagine how your life would be if when people talked about confidence, and a confident person they admired your face was the face they pictured. This is possible.

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With the help of our 5-day challenge, you will learn how to build up your confidence step by step, bit by bit before you get out of bed. We will help you learn that when it comes to confidence, if you want it, you can build it.

Our 5 Day Confidence Boosting Challenge Starts On November 28, 2016! This is an exciting opportunity for you to learn tips and tricks that will help you boost your confidence so that you will be able to Rock Your Business with Confidence.

You Can Be the Confident Successful Person You Want to Be. Through our challenge we will help you to identify all the things you want to do but haven’t done because you lacked the confidence. That list may be long and overwhelming. That doesn’t matter. Just pick one item to implement.

Start small. Get small wins. This will give you the boost in confidence to pick something big, bold and audacious from that list and make it a reality!

The best piece of advice I ever received was “Do it scared. Do it anyway.” Think about it. What do you have to lose by taking action?

The confidence you need to do whatever you want is already inside you.

Let’s work together to for 5 days and unlock that hidden confidence. Becoming confident is like eating an elephant. It is a BIG job. It is a MAJOR undertaking. But, you can do it. You become more confident the same way you eat an elephant. You do it one bite at a time, one step at a time.

Our 5-Day Confidence Building Challenge is the first step toward becoming the confident person you want to be. Enter your name and email to join our challenge. Hope to see you on the other side. Let us know what you think in the comment section below.

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Creating Confidence 5 Day Challenge

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I have created a 5 day challenge to make good use of my super power. You ask what is my super power? I can make anyone feel confident and secure in their ability to achieve their dreams.

 

It‘s Not About Faking it Until You Make It, Put in the Work

 

In order to be successful and happy, you have to have confidence in yourself and your abilities. Without confidence, success is so much harder to achieve than it needs to be. If you do not have the confidence you need to do what you want to in life, be encouraged. You can get the confidence you need to do anything. I believe that with all my heart. I started my first blog – Janeane’s World because I believe every person can be successful and happy with the right encouragement, inspiration and motivation. That belief is also the reason why I work every day to create resources designed to give women the encouragement, inspiration and motivation they need to be happy and successful at work and home.

People are often told to fake it until they make it. I don’t believe in that. Faking it is not enough. You must fake it until you make it with work. That means you must do the work necessary to achieve the dream. A lack of confidence can stop you from doing many things including:

  • going back to school
  • starting a new business
  • pursuing a new venture
  • starting a family

 

Think about all the things you have planned to do but never did because you got scared and didn’t move forward. How many times in life has fear and a lack of confidence kept you from doing what you want to do. Have you ever heard a friend or colleague talk about a dream you both had. Perhaps your friend pushed forward and did what was necessary to pursue that dream while you were afraid and stood back and watched her achieve the dream. The difference between the two of you is that she rustled up the confidence to go for it. Think for a moment about how you felt on occasions where others used their confidence to push forward to accomplish your dreams while you sat on the sidelines afraid and just watched. It was never a good feeling,was it?

You do not have to experience that ever again. You can get the confidence you need to achieve all you dream. If a lack of confidence is stopping you from doing what you want to do, be encouraged. My 5 Day Creating Confidence challenge is just the thing you need to get the ball rolling and start being the confident woman you want to be. Give me 5 days and you will have a renewed sense of confidence and some tools that will help you refresh your confidence when life gets hard and your confidence starts to waiver! Stay tuned to this spot for details. Never forget it is time for you to stop dreaming and start doing!

Want to Be Confident? Grab Your Big Girl Panties!

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Being confident in life is a three-part procedure that starts before you get out of bed in the morning. First, you put on your big girl panties and decide you are a confident person. Second, you put on your fake it until you make it (with work) dress by behaving as if you are confident. Third, put on your accessories, which are the clichés that will get you pumped up and keep you going when things get hard or go wrong.  Think of these three steps like a recipe. When you put all the ingredients together you will have exactly the confidence you need.

 

Step One: Put on Your Big Girl Panties

 

For many women, there is a certain undergarment that makes her feel grown up, special and powerful. Those are her big girl panties. The one she puts on in the morning when she knows good and important things are going to happen that day. Take a moment right now to  take a deep breath and picture your favorite big girl panties in your mind. For some people, these panties will be plain white comfy granny panties. For other people, it will be a delicious treat of a pair of panties from your favorite lingerie shop. It doesn’t matter. Just picture your favorite grown up panties and picture yourself pulling them up and on. When you have put on your big girl panties on in your mind, you have started your mental preparations to have a confident day.

You start creating and having the confidence you want by putting on your big girl panties and deciding you will have the confidence you want. Creating the confidence starts in your mind. It starts with you mentally preparing to be confident. This is done by actually deciding that you will be confident. It is the essential first step in the journey towards confidence. You can do this. Almost everyone who wants to be confident can be confident with the right preparation.

The right preparation starts before you ever get out of bed in the morning. Preparation for confidence starts in your mind. It starts with a decision to be confident. Once you make the decision, you create a plan to make it happen while you are still in bed, before you sit up and let your feet touch the ground. This means you decide to show up like a grown up and take responsibility for your own life. No matter what has happened in the past, you can be confident. No matter what shortcomings you think you have, you can be confident. No matter how many people call you a failure, you can be confident. You hold the keys to confidence in your hand and no one can take them away. Keep in mind, that if you lose your confidence, just like you can pick up keys you have dropped, you can pick up your confidence. We will discuss that more in detail later.

Start the day by telling yourself you are confident. Do not say you will be. Do not say you want to be. If doubt creeps into your thinking as  you talk to yourself, shake your head. Literally shake your head no and then tell yourself again that you are confident.  Simply say

“I am confident. I have the confidence I need to do whatever I want.”  

Do this each morning before you get out of bed. When you wake up say the words. It sounds silly. But is is not. Your words have power. If you tell your something often enough you can start to believe it and you can live it. Don’t worry about how it looks. Don’t worry about how it sounds. When you wake up each morning, tell yourself that you are confident.

Do not think about how it will work. Do not try to figure out how you will make it happen. At this crucial beginning point, the hows do not matter. Simply decide to have the confidence you want and then move forward. Say the words “I am confident. I have the confidence I need to do whatever I want.” Say the words in your head and say them out loud. Your words have power. Your words have strength. By saying the words over and over again, you can talk yourself into being the confident person you want to be. This is the first step. It is crucially important.

 

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